I’ve never been an easy person to be in a relationship with. Last year, I would have said that it’s just my personality. Now, I know that a lot of the things that make me hard to date are attributes of bipolar and borderline.
Knowing this makes things easier to understand, but no easier to solve. I’m still a difficult person to date, I’m even a difficult person to be friends with. But, the crucial difference is that now I have clear goals that I can work towards to help me be better.